Saturday, September 4, 2010

DEKH TERE SANSAAR KEE HAALAT KYA HOO GAYEE BHAGWAAN .....................

what exactly is ‘consensual flirtation’?

who decides?
how is the laxman- rekha drawn, and by whom?
The things which seems to be common are most often uncommon...............
We have hesitation in accepting that we are not as ideal lord ram neither we are as bad as demon ravan...
we are in between ...lets face it in our heart of hearts we bloody well know when someone is harassing us.

You don’t need to hone up on the fine print in the office manual to figure out
the difference between a friendly, complimentary remark and hard core come on or threat. men and women in urban India are capable of getting the difference.

Sorry if I crossed my boundary of friendship. won’t happen again. apologies.............i was just joking...........
its the hypocrisy which irritates me from the bottom of my navel. are we not indulge in some harmless silly flirting without involving the morale and values........

are women over reacting......... behaving in an fashion each time they find themselves at the receiving end of male attention – verbal and\or nonverbal.........

why are we assuming poor men don’t feel equally oppressed when the face the same situation.............especially under suspicious environment.......this is not to trivialize the issue. but the heat is getting to everybody.........sexual harassment , real or wildly imagine

it has become a real pain which can be only understood by the one who has faced it first hand. may be casting couch can better explained the things better....nobody knows how to deal with it........its all happening in the urbane jungle and we are either prey or predator....or mute spectator...

we talk about social disease ......it mother of all ....at lest under current surrounding its not less than harassment to define harassment, perhaps we need to examine the dynamics of the problem in a altogether different dimension.....maybe it could be beyond humane comprehension....