Wednesday, October 6, 2010

nothing is impossible.....

i find this ad quite motivating to get a place in my space....since ages rats are presumed to be meek and always running for life from cat......never come to judgement as u never know what a meek can do what a mighty dares to......

Saturday, September 4, 2010


what exactly is ‘consensual flirtation’?

who decides?
how is the laxman- rekha drawn, and by whom?
The things which seems to be common are most often uncommon...............
We have hesitation in accepting that we are not as ideal lord ram neither we are as bad as demon ravan...
we are in between ...lets face it in our heart of hearts we bloody well know when someone is harassing us.

You don’t need to hone up on the fine print in the office manual to figure out
the difference between a friendly, complimentary remark and hard core come on or threat. men and women in urban India are capable of getting the difference.

Sorry if I crossed my boundary of friendship. won’t happen again. apologies.............i was just joking...........
its the hypocrisy which irritates me from the bottom of my navel. are we not indulge in some harmless silly flirting without involving the morale and values........

are women over reacting......... behaving in an fashion each time they find themselves at the receiving end of male attention – verbal and\or nonverbal.........

why are we assuming poor men don’t feel equally oppressed when the face the same situation.............especially under suspicious environment.......this is not to trivialize the issue. but the heat is getting to everybody.........sexual harassment , real or wildly imagine

it has become a real pain which can be only understood by the one who has faced it first hand. may be casting couch can better explained the things better....nobody knows how to deal with it........its all happening in the urbane jungle and we are either prey or predator....or mute spectator...

we talk about social disease mother of all lest under current surrounding its not less than harassment to define harassment, perhaps we need to examine the dynamics of the problem in a altogether different dimension.....maybe it could be beyond humane comprehension....

Wednesday, February 10, 2010

fear of unknown

If I have to define the biggest fear of humankind I would say its fear of unknown .........we are phobic to literally all kind of imaginable and unimaginable stuffs...
When you try to live your dream its none other than your near one who have all the apprehensions about the outcome (mostly not appreciable by you) and you take all the pains to visualize your dreams to them...but of no use...

The world laugh at me
& say you are different 

I laugh back at them & say you all are same.....................

Monday, February 8, 2010

Laides & Gentleman

Creativity & Innovation is something which runs in every warriors of Aravali. Below is the part of mail sent on aravali group upon sucessful completion of 8th Annual Convocation on February 3, 2010. I find it good enough to hijack myway........JAIN jai ho!!!! I am publishing your work........(with critique/comments of mine in italics)

A true Aravalians uniform is incomplete without

(And what abouth shaved Gentleman & Ladies with platied hair)

 A true Aravalians vocab is incomplete without
“Punctuality, Discipline, Managerial & Leadership skills"

(fantastics and disgusting are second runner up)

A true Aravalians warning is incomplete without Prof M M Mehta
“By putting fines and notices on notice boards"

(Who better else than me can testify it by giving 200 bucks as fine just a day after
Convo. Juniors must remember my contri when you are out for next official picnic)

A true Aravalians morning assembly is incomplete without Mr. Sanjay Diddee
“By taking out the names for news"

(Kharrrrrrr............fuuuuuu...........Kharrrrrrrrrr.........fuuuuuuuu.........hope this sound makes sense to True Aravalians...its snorting sounds in the class...sorry to kill the fun part...)

A true Aravalians press release is incomplete without Mr. Amlan Bhattacharya
“By oral briefing the press and updating all the events in newspaper & magazine like Aravali Outreach..."

(If not Fantabulas than Fantastic that all I have to say .....See Mr. Amlan you must shoot the mail wz you have send to meeeee)

A true Aravalians sporty and team spirit is incomplete without Mr. Amit Bhati
“By arranging & organizing games for the sports day"

(Kudoos to Mr. Bhati and team led by none other than IPS...)

A true Aravalians knowledge of Operations is incomplete without Prof J M Pant
"By teaching terms like 5S, Kaizen, QC Tools, Six Sigma...."

(Suraj kee garme say taptay huyae man koo mil jaayae taruwar kee chayaa waisaa hee sukh mairay adhuray gyan koo milaa hai saran tayraee jab say mai aayaa ...mayray baabaa)

A true Aravalians desk is incomplete without Mrs. Anita Arya
“By helping & guiding each one of US"


A true Aravalians review is incomplete without
“Thinking Out of the Box"

(You only are the example)

If this work is published ARAVALI is truly a Pinnacle for Learning.

(Darling you Aravalian and that too proud with or without Publication....
Basically I am coming up with a project LL2A aka luv letter to aravali...and would luv to hire without compensation to pen down few chapters...soo don’t let your fountain dry.....)

Ms. Ritika Jain
Marketing Executive and B.D. Executive
Johari Digital Healthcare Ltd.

Thursday, January 28, 2010


Quite half the world is asleep and other half is in rush to fulfill their design. If I were asked to rate which state of mind is better then it will be a big Q. those who are asleep either they or their god know what they are fanaticizing. My friend Vikram a loyal husband and proud father of a cute baby told me few days backs that Bips come to her dream and they do things which can only be classified as infidelity. I share his romantic adventure with Nitu (named changed) again loyal wife of Vikram and before that good friend of mine. She said thanks god it’s not Rani…!!!!!!

Human species in some way or other always comes in different color of shades as in practical life there is no such thing as black and white and Irony is that very few can see things that help and sets all free. You are running away to catch something disguising under The mask, which neither let you cry really last when you have a deep pang nor let smile blackmail your face for a too long as somewhere deep down you are hurt beyond recovery. It’s hard to judge if yours eyes are twinkling or it’s just going to release a drop of tear from the corner of your eyes

At some point of time I was asked by Nitu what makes you happy, an innocent smile on child after having its desire fulfilled by mundane objects (by materialistic standard) was the reply of mine. Tell me the truth, she demanded…what is this I am giving you truth besides that its sheer company makes my surrounding heaven. Their attention seeking cries, hugging the strangers without bothering what their caste, creed, religion and of course sex, as though they are ardent follower of constitution of India. The corruptions only follow later. Who is the culprit? Playing with them with intention of loosing the game give more satisfaction than what we could have by defeating my cunning college.

That’s ok we know its universal but what else besides philosophical discourse on children. Doesn’t adult makes you happy. Boys after marriage becomes Man and girl only devil (I know Nitu will not mind it). It’s not like that I did not smell her intention but I wanted her to crystal clear the objective of the probing session. Without wasting sound and time energy she hits the bull eye- girlfriend? Now the devil in me starts manipulating the different permutation and combination of my response and there would be repercussions. If I say yes I do have, chances are there I might lose good opportunity if Nitu going to suggest some good match when I a having one who does not deserve me. Then again if I say no or have a recent break up which might be far from truth, results in KIA (decode the abbr. yourself) by someone whom I am ditching. 

The Prisoner dilemma kind of situation arise and its always better to follow middle path. After giving much chintan (thoughts) I just blush and give her million dollar smile just to make her puzzled by adding ONLY GOD KNOWS..............................

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Dekh tayray sansar kee halat kya hoo gayee bhagwan kitnaa badal gaya insaan..........

Mission Save "X"


I am not feeling quite well today. Very few adults which can be counted , are blessed one to live the way they wanted to live, there are plenty of those troubled ones who feel life is no longer worth living for, are in desperate need of “jaadu kee jappee”. Something unacceptable is going on in our society and ‘Aall isn’t well’, I’m uncomfortable, all is falling apart, if we believe scary statistics. Quite recently I met a good friend name “X” having suicidal feelings. The adult life is saved by caring and sensitive listening by me when he/she was at his lowest. The psychologist in me guided “X”. I thought to myself, this “X” is blessed – he/she has a loving person in his/her life who didn’t give up on him/her. What of the others who feel isolated and desperate enough to kill themselves? And how can one possibly explain this phenomenon called suicide??? A good MRP topic to research on, hey what’s your call on that???

Every thing is fair in love and war ……’s my way of viewing the life and it might be possible that I am right to the six sigma level, but considering humanity, even that might result in frustration of say few hundred chances. I need to think to think some better rationale accommodation kabira philosophy “mai bhi bhukha naa rahu sadhuu naa bhukha jaayae”. Life is precious; importance should be give to feel more positive about none other than myself. Sarwaysaam shanti bhawatu, shukheenoo bhawantuu sarwadda (let peace be everywhere, let happiness be prevail in plant, animal and non-living kingdom). I like kabira philosphy, his message in simple and lucid manner which is need of the hour.

Paramhansa Yogananda often says music and spirituality is best healer for wounded souls. Yoga again comes to rescuing task, hats off to institute who are inculcating yoga in their acedimics in some way or other. Thanks Prof. Arya for this wonderful experience of life. Although we do have some ideological difference yet I respect him in totality and would like to share Bachhan Saab poem, which he send to our group when most of us where feeling not soo high then. I am justifying my credit rating by giving 99.999% to Prof. Arya and 0.0001% to Bachhan Saab taking shelter of Kabira lines “guru gobind daau kharay kkakay laagu paayay, balyhaari guru aapnay govind diyoo battayy”. Below is the much talked about poem--

nsh Rai Bachh
Lahroon Se Darr Kar.. Naauka Paar Nahin Hoti
Himmat Karne Walon Ki.. Haar Nahin Hoti
Nanhiin Chiitin Jab Daana Lekhar Chalti Hai
Chadhti Deewaroon Par Sau Baar Phisalti Hai
Mann Ka Vishwaas Ragoon Mein Saahas Barta Hai
Chadh Kar Girna.. Girkar Chadhna.. Naa Aakarta Hai
Aakhir Uski Mehnat.. Bekaar Nahin Hoti
Koshish Karne Walon Ki.. Haar Nahin Hoti
Dubkiyaan Sindhu Mein Goota Khoor Lagaata Hai
Jaa Jaa Kar Khaali Haath.. Laut Aata Hai
Milte Na Shaheej Ke Moti Paani Mein
Behta Doona Utsaah Isi Hairaani Mein
Muthi Uski Khaali.. Haar Baar Nahin Hoti
Himmat Karne Walon Ki.. Haar Nahin Hoti
Asafalta.. Ek Chunauti Hai.. Sweekaar Karoo
Kya Kami Rehgayi.. Dekho.. Aur Suthaar Karoo
Jabtak Nasafaal Ho.. Neend Chaain Ki Tyaago Tum
Sungharshoon Ka Maidaan.. Choodh Mat Bhaago Tum
Kucch Kiye Bina Hi.. Jay Jay Kar Nahin Hoti
Himmat Karne Walon Ki.. Haar Nahin Hoti
                                       - Credits: Harivaan
I know critics are their give to give their bite- there is nothing innovative, but at this desperate point in time, whatever we think can work, has to be given a chance. It’s my way of changing the world, to make it more breathable, you might have yours. No issue at all.

The key to solving the current sad situation lies in this – we no longer know who we are. People take ‘identity’ for granted, even though it is at the core of our lives. If we don’t know who the hell we are, it is safe to assume we are lost – emotionally and spiritually.

What “X” is facing today is a loss of identity, we have failed in our effort to connect with our own self. Dealing with an emergency- like situation, has to be tackled on a war footing if we are to pre-empt and prevent further deaths. Even Americans are better known for “Attack is the best way of defense”, though I have certain reservation on that. When 9/11 happen Mr. Bush announcement on the war against terrorism, EITHER YOU ARE WITH US OR AGAINST US (no space of Buddha middle path) and his justification on attack based on hate theory (we American are hated because we are rich, definitely you are, we are powerful, no second doubt on that, and we are good, I think its debatable). Anyway I find the superpower self acclaimed cruel good Americans as a ‘loser’. I can’t buy any justification for attacking Iraq on silly WMD propaganda and so called war in the name and fame of democracy. Considering the present geo-politics all major war currently happening around the word are tagged to mission save democracy. Its prestine virginity is cruelly raped by none other than its own sadist custodians.

Saturday, January 16, 2010

U have to start somewhere.....
I started... wait for good time...